I like the word of the day, it reminds me of the word "bondage" in both sound and (in my personal experience) definition. The word is "badinage" and, as defined on AWAD, means "Light, playful remarks; banter." I'll have to remember to use more badinage during bondage sessions with M.s. On a related note, one great thing about two people in a kinky relationship working from home -- afternoon play time.

On an unrelated note, I had fun the other night with my bald boys at the House of Blues. I'm looking into whether or not there's a good story in there, so I'll hold off on details for now. I had never been to the HoB in San Diego, so it was nice to check it out. I'll be checking out another new joint on Saturday night, though lucky for me, that one is not located downtown.

Tonight I'm going to see Gay Cowboys with Spider Monkey. We're both crossing our fingers for gratuitous ass shots (probably one of the many reasons our men won't be joining us -- they have nothing against the asses themselves, but might be put off by our reactions to those asses).

All this talk of asses reminds me of Pruitt Igoe and their quirky song, entitled "Asses."

Oh, and on another note, I've been enjoying THIS BLOG lately. Written by my good friend Baldy's brother, it's both entertaining and informative. Dig it.

Now it's time to don my sneakers, grab my iPod, and head off to that place where excessive sweat is a sign of progress. Charlie's working us extra hard this week because we're missing two days of gym while we're in New York next week. My body says OW, but my mind says, OH, YEAH. Funny, that too reminds me of bondage.

-Barbarella

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